Mary “Mernie” Murtland Wurts Berger died peacefully at her home
at Longwood at Oakmont. She was predeceased by her husband, George
Bart Berger, Jr. She is survived by their two daughters, Ann Harvy Bart Berger and Mary
Berger Knowles Burgess her husband, Ken and her children: Chad Messer. George
Messer, Ashley Grenier, Alexander Knowles, Jay Knowles, Charlotte Higgins, and Scott
Knowles, and 14 great grandchildren. Mernie’s greatest joys in life were George and her
family. She was their greatest support, their defender and loved them all unconditionally.
And to all of them she was their “Mern!”
Mernie was a lifelong Pittsburgher. She attended Miss Sherers School and The
Ellis School. She graduated from The Garrison Forest School and then went on to
Vassar College and then to attend Carnegie Tech, now Carnegie Mellon University,
where she proved to be a gifted artist!
She was a lifelong member of Calvary Church, teaching Sunday School, working
as a member of the Altar Guild and chairing many church organizations. She headed
needlepoint projects located in the All Saints Chapel at Calvary Church. She was the
Co-Chair of the Women of Calvary Bazaar where Mernie, and her husband George,
gifted painters and woodworkers respectively, contributed their time and handmade
crafts to the church.
With George’s support she dedicated her many talents to various charitable
organizations including a Trustee at The Carnegie Museums of Pittsburgh and The
Phipps Conservatory, a Founder of the Carnegie Museum of Art Women's Committee
and President. She enthusiastically supported the Carnegie International exhibits to
enable art of all kinds, and many projects at the Buhl Science Center. Mernie was
Chairman of the Antiques Auction, and Founder of the Carnegie Museum Decorative
Arts Symposium. In addition, she was a Co-Founder of The Three Rivers Arts Festival
where some of her paintings were displayed and sold.
Gardening was one of her passions which she shared with many. She will be
remembered for her true love of gardening, for her horticultural knowledge and creativity
not only in her own gardens but those at Phipps Conservatory, Carnegie Museum,
gardens at her Canadian cottage, Longwood at Oakmont, and the many gardens of her
children and grandchildren. Mernie was a member of The Window Box Garden Club
and president of The Garden Club of Allegheny County where she Co-Chaired the
major fundraisers. In 2021 she received a special award from the Garden Club of
America for 50 years of service. Happiness to Mern was having a trowel in her hand!
Mernie was a gifted athlete and enjoyed the outdoors. Most often seen out and
about on her daily walks brightening everyone's day she crossed paths with. She was
always thinking of others, sending notes and baked goods to lift those around her. Her
Birthday Book was a legend, at the first of each month, Mernie sat and wrote Birthday
cards, so that everyone received her personal message. Mernie was a woman of deep
faith, true optimism, immense love for others, with an extremely generous spirit. To
know Mernie was to love her, she was adored by so many and will be dearly missed.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be sent to Calvary Episcopal Church, 315
Shady Avenue, 15206, Carnegie Museum of Art, 4400 Forbes Ave, 15213, or The
Phipps Conservatory, 1 Schenley Drive, 15213. A memorial service to celebrate Mernie’s extraordinary life will be held at a later date. Arrangements by John A. Freyvogel Sons, Inc.
(freyvogelfuneralhome.com)
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