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Terrence M. "Oats" O'Toole
October 20, 2023
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Suddenly, on Friday,October 20, 2023 at age 69, of Brentwood, and formerly Oakland. Surrounded
by his loving wife and best friend Kathryn “Kitty” O’Toole and adoring daughter
Jacqueline O’Toole; beloved son of the late James and Rita O'Toole. Tragically
predeceased by late son Michael and step-son Joseph Bungo.
Survived by brothers Joseph (Diana) and Patrick (Amy), and late siblings James
(Janice), Martin (Carol), Eileen O’Toole Carey (Tom Carey), and beloved step-
mother-in-law, Linda Lawson and sister-in-law, Terry Parker; and many loving
nieces and nephews.
Terry was a long time member of Local 508, the ushers union, and was a friendly
face in the PNC ticket window for years. Proud of his Irish heritage and a
voracious reader and a fantastic cook, Terry lived life on his own terms. He
handled many of life’s greatest challenges with remarkable grace and dignity.
Family and friends will be received on Monday October 23, 2023, from 12 noon
until a Blessing Service and remembrances at 6:00 pm at John Freyvogel Sons,
Inc. 4900 Centre Avenue at Devonshire Street (freyvogelfuneralhome.com).